DONT ASK MY...neighbour!

Dont ask my neighbour!.... (The Emotions/The Jones girls) Often you will hear me make musical references in my writing as I am a Singer, a Performing Artiste and a huge fan of all kinds of music. My thoughts tend to play out like a musical at times, as almost everything and every moment has a song to go with it!
Still today and many days I am asking myself, this question. Why do people say they know you when they have never even had a face to face meeting with you, let alone a relationship of any type never mind an intimate one!
Now I will keep this professional, I don't want to use any expletives to express myself as my vocabulary is not restricted; in fact quite the opposite. If I allow myself to become emotional about some of the persons attempting to somehow fit themselves into my life story, but not for positive effect. I would have a variety of verbs, nouns, pronouns and expletives to alternate between. Still some people would say that ignoring persons like this is the best solution.
But when you find that your personal reputation has been damaged  by persons who don't even know you or haven't even had a conversation with you, that persons actually use this fabricated nonsense against you to try to destroy your career, business, reputation, financial and personal relationships etc. Then you know that ignoring the problem wont make it go away and is not a viable solution. Talking alone can't help, likewise talking about persons behind their back with unqualified or qualified persons even, without proper research and investigation leaves you with nothing to share but idle gossip.
So for all those who actually want to know me or say something to me or be in my life - its really not that hard, if you know me at all you would realise by now how easy it is to start a dialogue with me. Further if you are aware that I am a Sales/Marketing and Communications specialist and this is how I make my money by communicating effectively and connecting clients with products and services. I spend the majority of my time, energy and thoughts processing things that are constructive, that are business oriented and have value to me or add value to my contacts life.  So if you are having an issue with communications, contact me and I can outline my consultancy fees and possibly help you resolve YOUR issue. If that is not possible then I suggest you put your money where your mouth is and find some value in the content of what you chose to discuss. And remember not everything that is good fi eat is good fi talk!